1. Hello tweeps welcome to episode 14 of #TheSuitableHelp Wisdom 4 Wives.
2. #TheSuitableHelp is aimed at providing wisdom, support and encouragement for wives to help them fulfil God's call on their lives.
3. The 5 episodes in April have been dedicated to single ladies to help raise fulfilled and secured singles. #TheSuitableHelp 4
4. Check out the blog http://flourishingwoman.blogspot.com for past episodes in this series #TheSuitableHelp
5. We end this series today with "Don't Sacrifice Your Femininity." #TheSuitableHelp
6. Femininity is the sum of all attributes that convey womanhood. #TheSuitableHelp
7. Its that part of us that is charming, receptive, intuitive and connecting. #TheSuitableHelp
8. Over the years women have found themselves taking on roles that have allowed them put on the masculine traits. #TheSuitableHelp
9. Which are drive, competition, protection, provision, solution and goal oriented. #TheSuitableHelp
10. With this, women have become independent and achievers in so many ways and in various areas. #TheSuitableHelp
11. In politics, corporate organisations and ministries, we have powerful women calling the shots. #TheSuitableHelp
12. These have made women become less dependent on others and more dependent on themselves. #TheSuitableHelp
13. Succeeding in relationship isn't the same as career. Relationship requires different skill set to succeed. #TheSuitableHelp
14. In career you're pushing to deliver, meet deadlines, improve the bottom line, execute projects and lead your team to results. #TheSuitableHelp
15. n relationship, you're in search of love, care, tenderness and passion, aggression isn't a skill needed here. #TheSuitableHelp
16. Being strong, capable and independent is welcome but one needs to be careful so it doesn't stand in the way of love. #TheSuitableHelp
17. Surviving therefore in today's world requires a lot of masculine traits but this can't be without a price unless there's a balance. #TheSuitableHelp
18. The fear of being vulnerable sometimes sends a wrong message to the men. #TheSuitableHelp
19. A real man always wants to make life better for his woman but 1/2 #TheSuitableHelp
20. many have relinquish this nobility because the 'do it yourself' attitude have told them they're not needed. 2/2 #TheSuitableHelp
21. When you over-utilize your masculine energy you seal up yourself emotionally to that tender part of you. #TheSuitableHelp
22. While You unconsciously send out business signals in relationships that prevent you from connecting or getting other dates. #TheSuitableHelp
23. Sealing up your femininity can make you unattractive to men because all they see are the masculine side of you. #TheSuitableHelp
24. How does this affect love. 1. It creates competition instead of connection. There's a silent tussle for control in the relationship.
25. (2). You loose touch with that sensual and original side of you. That part that is alluring and makes you desirable. #TheSuitableHelp
26. (3). Our femininity is like a magnet that attracts men to us. When you seal this up in you, you become unattractive. #TheSuitableHelp
27. (4). You shut the man out when you are perfectly in control of everything. When a man is not needed his esteem is affected. #TheSuitableHelp
28. You leave him no choice but to move on to someone else who would satisfy his deep seeded need to help. #TheSuitableHelp
29. Rather than deny your vulnerability, lean unto the beauty of your femininity and embrace its strength. #TheSuitableHelp
30. As simple as a smile could sound, its a strong signal that you're happy, friendly and can be approachable. #TheSuitableHelp
31. It also increases your chances of sparking romance in a relationship. #TheSuitableHelp
32. Show appreciation for treats no matter how small. Receive compliments graciously. #TheSuitableHelp
33. Our femininity makes us sexy and receptive the tools that empowers us to attract men. It opens you up for the feelings of being desired. #TheSuitableHelp
34. Embrace your femininity, its no weakness but strength that opens you up for love and a lasting relationship. #TheSuitableHelp
35. Thanks for allowing me your time once again. Till next time remain fulfilled. #TheSuitableHelp
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