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1.Hello there and welcome to episode 6 of #TheSuitableHelp, Wisdom 4 Wives.
2. The topic for today is Beyond Sensual Frustration. #TheSuitableHelp
3. We are told that men love sex and want it all d time. #TheSuitableHelp
4.This might not be true of all men but there are more men who like sex than those who do not. #TheSuitableHelp
5. To keep their spouses satisfied most women approach sex with a sense of duty and hence do not get the best of it. #TheSuitableHelp
6. Men become frustrated when their wives act indifferently to sex while the women sometimes feel 'used'.#TheSuitableHelp
7. God created this beautiful thing called sex for bonding between a man and his wife. #TheSuitableHelp
8. Some women struggle with sexual satisfaction which in some cases have created a strain in their marriages. #TheSuitableHelp
9. Factors responsible for low sex drive include: A. Decline in female hormones can lead to a loss of sexual desire. #TheSuitableHelp
10.B. Past issues of abuse, molestation or rape creates an emotional disconnect between the woman and her partner which affects their sex life. #TheSuitableHelp
11.C. Pregnancy and nursing kills the sex drive in some women. #TheSuitableHelp
12. D. Lifestyle, stress, drugs all have effect on how sexually active a woman can be. #TheSuitableHelp
13. E. Painful sex is another factor which can be as a result of dryness. #TheSuitableHelp
14.F. Inability to reach orgasm caused by short fall in female hormones hinders a lot of women from enjoying sex as well. #TheSuitableHelp
15.G. Sexual pleasure in some women can also decline with age. #TheSuitableHelp
16. When these factors are present, love making becomes frustrating for the couple. #TheSuitableHelp
17. Some women relegate sex to the back-burner because there are other pressing things that demand immediate attention. #TheSuitableHelp
18. What does it mean to be sensual? To be sensual is to be able to induce pleasurable or erotic sensation. #TheSuitableHelp
19. This can be nurtured back to be by any woman if she's willing to work at it. #TheSuitableHelp
20. The following tips can help put back that spark in your sex life and make you become more sensual. #TheSuitableHelp
21. Take routine out of your sex experiences, it doesn't always have to be at home and on the bed. #TheSuitableHelp
22. Get adventurous with love making and take turns to ravage each other. #TheSuitableHelp
23.We all derive sexual satisfaction differently, get in tune with your body and let your spouse know what turns you on. #TheSuitableHelp
24. Stay in shape if you must do, to keep you active in bed. Men derive much pleasure when their wives are equally involved in d act. #TheSuitableHelp
25. Have a 'look forward' attitude to love making with your spouse. It helps prepare you. #TheSuitableHelp
26. You can talk dirty on phone before he get's home to get you on the mood.
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27. Remind yourself of something you enjoy most about sex with your husband and look forward to that. #TheSuitableHelp
28.Keep the communication line open on matters of sex. #TheSuitableHelp
29.Tell him what gives you pleasure most in sex and also get to know his so the experience is most pleasurable for both of you. #TheSuitableHelp
30.Your husband derives great pleasure seeing you enjoy sex with him. #TheSuitableHelp
31.Get sexy lingerie, you can ask your spouse what colours he prefers. #TheSuitableHelp
32. Get a shower together, let body contact awaken your sensual senses. #TheSuitableHelp
33.Prioritise your activities, manage your time, delegate, do whatever it will take to deal with stress in your life. #TheSuitableHelp
34. Challenge yourself to start initiating sex. Some women don't feel comfortable asking for sex pleasures from their partner. #TheSuitableHelp
35. It took a long while after marriage for me to get past that. It sure took a lot of talking from my husband to gain the confidence to ask. #TheSuitableHelp
36. You can make your man into a loving, caring, sensitive man by fulfilling his pleasure. #TheSuitableHelp
37. Men don't always enjoy sex when its one sided. So when you think you're pretending to be into it .... (1) #TheSuitableHelp
38..just to satisfy your man, be sure he knows you're not deriving any pleasure from it and this can be frustrating to him.(2) #TheSuitableHelp
39.If you think sex is only fun then you might need to have a rethink because sex beyond pleasure also gives the following: #TheSuitableHelp
40.Sex brings your sensuality to life. #TheSuitableHelp
41. Sex reduces stress and enhances your sleep by relaxing you. #TheSuitableHelp
42.Sex helps you work as a team in other aspect of marriage life together. #TheSuitableHelp
43.Regular sex helps you desire more sex regularly. #TheSuitableHelp
44. Regular sex reduces tension between couples because both of you become deliberately nice to each other. #TheSuitableHelp
45. Seek counsel if you're a victim of rape or abuse so you can be worked through a process of healing. #TheSuitableHelp
46. If you desire a more sexual pleasure with your husband, you can get it. #TheSuitableHelp
47. You have to be intentional about keeping love alive in your marriage by nurturing intimacy. #TheSuitableHelp
48. God can change your views and attitude to sex if you ask him. Don't feel awkward talking about sex with God who created it. #TheSuitableHelp
49. Communication, understanding and patience is key when learning to grow your sexual response. #TheSuitableHelp
Thanks for following, hope you were blessed. #TheSuitableHelp
May the Lord restore intimacy back into your marriage by helping you gain back your sensuality. #TheSuitableHelp
God bless your marriage.
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