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1. Hello tweeps and welcome to episode 7 of #TheSuitableHelp Wisdom 4 Wives.
2. #TheSuitableHelp is aimed at providing wisdom, support and encouragement for wives.
3. If you missed the last episode you can check it out here http://goo.gl/IyoEU4
4. Winning By Staying True To Yourself is what today's tweet meet will be about. #TheSuitableHelp
5. Every wife is unique because of the wonderful position she occupies in her marriage. #TheSuitableHelp
6. The uniqueness of her role as the one who makes her man complete cannot be over emphasised either. #TheSuitableHelp
7. Therefore giving your best to achieve a successful marriage can be overwhelming. #TheSuitableHelp
8. The challenges of life can cast doubt on your ability to be the best wife you want to be. #TheSuitableHelp
9. You may begin to measure your success by comparing the running of your home with someone else's home. #TheSuitableHelp
10. Then when it seems things aren't running smoothly like the one in comparison, you feel like a failure. #TheSuitableHelp
11. Comparison distracts you from the uniqueness of your personality and purpose. #TheSuitableHelp
12. There's enormous joy and power in staying true to yourself. #TheSuitableHelp
13. Therefore joy should be of paramount importance to you if you must enjoy peace and remain a winner in marriage. #TheSuitableHelp
14. Anything contrary to this will cause you to fail. #TheSuitableHelp
15. Each time you try to live out someone else's life in your marriage you hit a brick wall and take solace in dejection. #TheSuitableHelp
16. Your peculiarity as an individual and that of your spouse should be major consideration when functioning as a wife. #TheSuitableHelp
17. A winning wife knows herself and understands God's plan and purpose for her life. #TheSuitableHelp
18.You can't win from the place of ignorance...(1) #TheSuitableHelp
19. You need to understand your make up and align this with God's purpose for your life to win as a wife.(2) #TheSuitableHelp
20. What are your strength and weaknesses? How can these be channelled into building a great marriage? #TheSuitableHelp
21.What are your values and beliefs? How sincere are you in allowing these and not friends guide your choices in marriage? #TheSuitableHelp
22.Do not run your marriage based on how friends run theirs because of acceptance. #TheSuitableHelp
23.Certain thing just can't work in your home because of the peculiarity of your spouse. Don't try to force a change on him. #TheSuitableHelp
24.Some people believe in relating with their spouse as a father figure and even go to the extent of calling him "Daddy". #TheSuitableHelp
25.And for other couples, irrespective of the age difference they're like pals which makes them very comfortable. #TheSuitableHelp
26.Know what works for you and stick with it. If you want to become creative in your relationship, (1) #TheSuitableHelp
27.Then you should be ready and patient enough to work your partner through the process of change. (2) #TheSuitableHelp
28.Tradition plays a huge influence on marriages in Africa. (1)
29. When this begins to affect your relationship, its better to talk things over to know what can be tolerated or not. #TheSuitableHelp
30.When you do things that are not a true reflection of yourself, you end up confused and unhappy. #TheSuitableHelp
31.Staying true to yourself allows your individuality shine forth and others will respect you for it. #TheSuitableHelp
32.Staying true to yourself as a christian wife also means you do not allow the world define you or your role in marriage. #TheSuitableHelp
33.Staying true to yourself is appreciating the gift of difference that God has given to you in marriage. #TheSuitableHelp
34.You may be strong willed, goal driven, embrace that about yourself and work with God's wisdom to make your marriage a success. #TheSuitableHelp
35.You don't have to be the quiet, reserved, patient introverted woman to have a great marriage. #TheSuitableHelp
36.You only need to recognise, appreciate and develop your uniqueness to fit into your spouse's own uniqueness. #TheSuitableHelp
37.Get out of the habit of judging and comparing yourself with other wives. #TheSuitableHelp
38.Not everyone will accept your standard and beliefs. Some will find them absurd because it goes against what the world preaches. #TheSuitableHelp
39.Staying true to yourself will require you to be courageous to hold onto your values and stand by what you believe. #TheSuitableHelp
40.Accept yourself for who you are because only your uniqueness can guarantee you success in marriage. #TheSuitableHelp
41. Thanks for staying with me, I hope you were blessed through today's tweet meet. #TheSuitableHelp
42. Till next episode God bless your marriage and remember to always stay true to yourself. #TheSuitableHelp
Its just the ability to know what works best for you in marriage and understanding the kind of relationship do you have with your husband. There some couples whose lives are just full of fun and entertainment. You wonder if they ever get serious to get things done. But that's how they've been able to run a successful marriage, by staying true to themselves.
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