Friday, 20 February 2015

#TheSuitableHelp Episode 4

Hello friends, below is the compiles tweet of episode 4 of #TheSuitableHelp Wisdom for Wives.

Read and be blessed.

1.Hello tweeps, its another enriching episode of #TheSuitableHelp, stay with me and you'll be richly blessed by this episode.

2. Let's continue our discussion on the 8 Attitudes of #TheSuitableHelp.

3. So far we have seen the following attitudes moderation, love for her husband and love for her kids. #TheSuitableHelp

4.If you missed any of the past episodes, pls read the compiled tweetcast at http://flourishingwoman.blogspot.com/?m=1

5. We kick off this episode with the 4th attitude, composure. #TheSuitableHelp

6. Other words that could also go for being composed are self-controlled, discreet, collected, gentle, peaceful and restrained. #TheSuitableHelp

7. Being discreet means respect for other people's privacy, handling other person's affairs and resources with utmost care. #TheSuitableHelp

8.Thr4 a discreet wife does not spread tales of her in-laws, destroying their reputation before her families and friends. #TheSuitableHelp

9.She values the gift of relationship and so seeks the well-being of others above her own self.  #TheSuitableHelp

10.As we journey thru life, we leave trails of our deeds and dealings which are seeds that will produce fruits in our future. #TheSuitableHelp

11.She's exercises self control in her lifestyle and seeks to live uprightly and earns the respect of men and women alike. #TheSuitableHelp

12.She's cautious about her conduct bcos she realises her lifestyle is a direct impact on the character formation of her children. #TheSuitableHelp

13.A considerate woman meets and leaves people feeling good about themselves and not miserable. #TheSuitableHelp

14.The 5th attitude is virtuous. To be virtuous is to be modest, decent, morally pure, and elegant. #TheSuitableHelp

15.How does your appearance leave the opposite sex, disgusted, angry n frustrated they can't do anything about your situation? #TheSuitableHelp

16.Are you dressing godly or godless? Is your body a hidden treasure or a billboard? #TheSuitableHelp

17.God is still asking, who can find a virtuous woman? #TheSuitableHelp

18.Can God find a future virtuous woman in the daughter you're raising? #TheSuitableHelp @Bolanlegemwoman @Bunmiexcel @DRealWoman

19.Believing women have been misled into believe that the more they bare in public the more sexy they are. #TheSuitableHelp

20.But a true virtuous woman recognises her worth as a queen and carries herself with such dignity. #TheSuitableHelp

21.Our 6th attitude is home builder. "The wise woman builds her home....." Prov.14:1 #TheSuitableHelp

22.Staying committed to d role as home builder is getting more challenging due to demands on our lifestyle as achievers. #TheSuitableHelp

23.We must not forget the fact that success isn't just the possession of material rewards but the fulfilment of purpose. #TheSuitableHelp

24.And every wife has a purpose to fulfil in the life of her spouse n kids #TheSuitableHelp

25.Our success in life can only mk a complete story when we're able to replicate career success in other areas as well. #TheSuitableHelp

26.Building a home starts wt a resolve, followed by learning and applying d wisdom with a determination to succeed. #TheSuitableHelp

27.Some of the wisdom for building the home include but are not limited to the following. #TheSuitableHelp

28.A. Understanding that the sensitivity of your role as a wife requires partnering with heaven for positive results. #TheSuitableHelp

29.B. Having your words seasoned and edifying to create life in the hearers. #TheSuitableHelp

30.C. Maintaining a cheerful and enriched spirit that exudes love and healing around your home. #TheSuitableHelp

31.D. Demonstrating trust for God through submission to your husband. #TheSuitableHelp

32.E. Understanding and responding positively to your spouse' needs. #TheSuitableHelp

33.F. Recognising that true love is rooted in God. #TheSuitableHelp

34.G. Lastly, being sensitive to the demands of the time we live in. #TheSuitableHelp

35.The Bible says of the sons of Issachar that they had understanding of the times and seasons. #TheSuitableHelp

36.Understand'g d various influences n pressures marriages are exposed to n arming urself wt d right skills to withstand. #TheSuitableHelp

37. It is also appreciating the advancement of technology and its positive n negative influences on kids.  #TheSuitableHelp

38.Understand'g seasons also requires every woman to know d dynamics of her home n family to be able to create balance. #TheSuitableHelp

39.Having a balance does not mean giving equal attention to every aspect of your life but having the wisdom.....(1) #TheSuitableHelp

40..... to discern which area can be compromised for the other depending on the demand of its season. (2) #TheSuitableHelp

41.The 7th attitude to look at is compassionate which also means kindness, gracious, affectionate and sympathetic. #TheSuitableHelp

42.A compassionate woman is always motivated by love to produce good deeds n is thr4 a crown to her husband. #TheSuitableHelp

43.She uses what she knows to improve the lives of those around her. #TheSuitableHelp

44.The last attitude is humility or submission. #TheSuitableHelp

45. One way of demontrating submission is learning not to push your spouse into repentance, ds attitude prod the opposite result. #TheSuitableHelp

46.Avoid acting as your spouses conscience, let God start and perfect His work of grace in his life, you're not the Holy Spirit. #TheSuitableHelp

47. No one is an exception to the rule of submission not even by temperament. #TheSuitableHelp

48.As a helpmeet, you can't help your husband when you are full of pride, puffed up and power driven. #TheSuitableHelp

49.The devil understands d power in submission so he keeps believers ignorant of it by perverting the idea of biblical submission #TheSuitableHelp

50.Submission is an attitude rather than an outward appearance. #TheSuitableHelp

51. Submission is having the ability to listen to your spouse's unspoken anger and frustration and....(1) #TheSuitableHelp

52.... through wisdom be able to respond positively (2) #TheSuitableHelp

53.Submission is being tranquil yet confident in carrying out your roles with every sense of security. #TheSuitableHelp

54.Don't wait for your spouse to come up to an appreciable level of conformity before you do your part. #TheSuitableHelp

Hope you've been blessed with these 8 attitudes of the wife that is fit for her husband. #TheSuitableHelp

I'm available for your questions and concern on flogun29@gmail.com or bb 2A827C9B

God bless you all.

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