Friday, 6 February 2015

#TheSuitableHelp Episode 2: The 8 Attitudes Of The Suitable Help Pt. 1

Hello firends, did you miss live tweetcast of #TheSuitableHelp? Here's the compiled tweet for your reading pleasure.

Read and be blessed.

1.Hello and welcome to the 2nd Episode of #TheSuitableHelp, Wisdom 4 Wives

2.I believe thru' this medium, the fountain of wisdom will be released upon every wife to fulfil her marital destiny. #TheSuitableHelp

3.We shall be examining the 8 attitudes of #TheSuitableHelp

4.It is often said that when the purpose of a thing is not known then abuse is inevitable. #TheSuitableHelp

5.An understanding of God's purpose frees us from the grip of an aimless walk and empowers us for fulfilment. #TheSuitableHelp

6.No one can better describe his intent for a product than the creator himself. #TheSuitableHelp

7.The functionality of any product is described in its manual for ease of use and maximum satisfaction. #TheSuitableHelp

8.God created the institution known as marriage and gave us a manual in His word to help us understand our functional roles. #TheSuitableHelp

9.But what we have today are marriages modelled after ideologies portrayed in the media, internet n rights struggle. #TheSuitableHelp

10.Young women are picking up role models in celebrities with failed marriages which is rubbing off on their life style. #TheSuitableHelp

11.And sacrificing something as priceless as their marriage at the alter of vague ambitions. #TheSuitableHelp

12.Pursuing success too without creating the needed balance at home can cause your marriage to suffer a huge set back.#TheSuitableHelp

13.In that case your marriage becomes an opportunity cost for your desired status because everything has its price in life. #TheSuitableHelp

14.Raymond Holliwell says, "No matter what we want out of life we have to give up something in order to get it.” #TheSuitableHelp

15.Are you willing to give up something for the success of your marriage? #TheSuitableHelp

16.U never mk sacrifices for what u don't treasure thr4 until u see ur marriage as s'thg priceless u can't sacrifice for it.#TheSuitableHelp

17.Your marriage can become a treasure when you begin to create value around that office you occupy as a wife. #TheSuitableHelp

18.When you make God's instruction your reality, the power and authority in the word also becomes your reality. #TheSuitableHelp

19.You don't struggle for relevance in marriage, submitting to God's word create your honour which brings you relevance. #TheSuitableHelp

20.It takes effort from both the man n the woman to create the success they want in marriage. #TheSuitableHelp

21.The vision of #TheSuitableHelp is to provide wisdom for wives to complement their husbands in building successful homes

22.In Titus 2:3-5 Amplified Bible (AMP) Paul, through Timothy admonished the mature women who were married to positively influence....(1)

23......younger women to embrace the 8 attitudes expected of every wife, but the reason he gave is quite surprising....(2)

24....he said, "that the word of God may not be exposed to reproach (blasphemed or discredited)." #TheSuitableHelp

25.Ds tells me that my attitude as a wife doesn't impact my marriage only but also the body of Christ. #TheSuitableHelp

26.When we tk our liberty as christians for granted n our feminism overboard, we mk a reproach of God's manual 4 marriage. #TheSuitableHelp

27.These 8 desirable attitudes are: A. Moderation B. A lover of her husband C. A lover of her kids D. Composure....(1) #TheSuitableHelp

28. E. Virtuous F. A home builder G. Compassionate and H. Humility (2) #TheSuitableHelp

29. A. To be moderate (sober) means to be temperate, cautious, considerate, disciplined, pleasant and reasonable. #TheSuitableHelp

30. Be in control of your appetite and your desires. Develop the will and discipline to say no to certain cravings. #TheSuitableHelp

31. Not bcos u can't afford it but bcos ur maturity and wisdom is reflected in how much of ur desire is under subjection. #TheSuitableHelp

32. When you're considerate, you exhibit a great level of understanding which makes you a good encourager to your man. #TheSuitableHelp

33. It also means being disciplined, which makes you good at planning and time management. #TheSuitableHelp

34. A disciplined wife understands that her overwhelming role can take a toll on her person.....(1) #TheSuitableHelp

35...... and cause friction in her relationship with her husband there4 she plans her day employing skills like multi-task, focus and prioritising.....

36.....to ensure she's ready to shift all attention to her man when he arrives and makes his time of quality. #TheSuitableHelp

37. She makes the home neat and welcoming, kids are no excuse for an untidy house. #TheSuitableHelp

38. His home shouldn't be an extension of his office that speaks of chaos with files and papers thrown around....(1) #TheSuitableHelp

39.....but an haven of peace, which is welcoming and offers him an atmosphere to relax and get revitalised for the next day. #TheSuitableHelp

40. A sober wife lives with eternity in view which helps her appreciate the virtue of delayed gratification. #TheSuitableHelp

41. She's not excessive but employs her plan' and mgt skills into d family resources to help build a greater future.#TheSuitableHelp

42. As a pleasant wife she's warm and hospitable. Knows how to manage her emotions. #TheSuitableHelp

43. A pleasant wife is not an emotional wreck and does not drive everyone around her crazy with a nervous breakdown. #TheSuitableHelp

44. And lastly on being moderate, is reasonable. A reasonable wife is not unnecessarily worked up over her husbands weaknesses. #TheSuitableHelp

45. But understands that as a help meet, she's to make up for his deficiency with her own strength. #TheSuitableHelp

We can't exhaust all the attitudes in this episode, join me next week as we examine other attitudes of #TheSuitableHelp

Thanks for following, may you be equipped with wisdom to fulfil your marital destinies.

God bless your marriages.

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