#TheSuitableHelp Episode 20: Is He Worth The Effort

1. Good eveing tweeps, its episode 20 of #TheSuitableHelp.  

2. #TheSuitableHelp is aimed at providing wisdom, support and encouragement for wives and single ladies to fulfil God's call on their lives.  

3. Last week on #TheSuitableHelp we took a look at The Other Woman, Was It All Her Fault, talking about infidelity in marriage.  

4. Our guest @gbonjute helped to do justice to the topic. #TheSuitableHelp  

5. After the episode, I felt the need to do a sequel to that topic looking at what it takes to win back your man and if its worth it. #TheSuitableHelp  

6. For that we'll be discussing Is He Worth The Effort in today's episode of #TheSuitableHelp  

7. How does the man whom you love with unrestrained completeness run a sledgehammer through your heart. #TheSuitableHelp  

8. What could have gone wrong, where did you miss it. Many questions run through your mind after that startling discovery . #TheSuitableHelp  

9. "Can I ever forgive him," "can I love and trust him again," " will I be able to submit my body to him again." #TheSuitableHelp  

10. Can the pieces be put together to restore back our marriage when it seems everything has crumbled. #TheSuitableHelp  

11. How do I win back my husband from the other woman who seem to have her claws all over him? #TheSuitableHelp  

12. Is it even worth fighting for the man who has caused me so much pain and misery. #TheSuitableHelp  

13. Your rage and jealousy might motivate you to want to seek that your right he violated be addressed. #TheSuitableHelp  

14. In a situation where he hasn't totally broken up from the other woman, your reaction can drive him further into her arms. #TheSuitableHelp  

15. Sometimes standing on your right and fighting for your right can leave you standing alone. #TheSuitableHelp  

16. When there's a competitor in the picture you need to act on wisdom and not on your hurt instinct. #TheSuitableHelp  

17. You can't make a man leave the other woman for you by putting him under pressure. #TheSuitableHelp  

18. He wont forsake a happy, joyful, elated woman for a sad, bitter and hateful wife...1/2 #TheSuitableHelp  

19. ...even when he knows he's responsible for your negative feelings. #TheSuitableHelp  

20. Only God can convict a lost man of his mistakes and turn his heart back to his wife. #TheSuitableHelp  

21. When a man falls into sin and tries to justify his actions by blaming it on your neglect, he's motivated by baser instincts. #TheSuitableHelp  

22. When you understand this you don't operate from his level but from a higher realm of wisdom. #TheSuitableHelp  

23. It isn't going to be easy but it will worth every effort as God will have your back when you try to build his institutn #TheSuitableHelp  

24. Every of your anger and rage is justifiable but is it the best approach to winning back your man? #TheSuitableHelp  

25. A negative approach can never yield positive result. #TheSuitableHelp  

26. When he still can't get what pushed him out in the first place, he will return back into the arms of the other woman. #TheSuitableHelp  

27. To get back your man, you need to become and surpass what the other woman is. #TheSuitableHelp  

28. If your husband is attracted to the other woman's vulnerability then you need to tone down your power of independence. #TheSuitableHelp  

29. If he's moved by her adorable looks and compliment then you need to climb down and loosen up from being so uptight. #TheSuitableHelp  

30. If she appeals to your husband's sense of manliness by her need for help then you need to deactivate your self sufficiency mode. #TheSuitableHelp  

31. If she's catching in on your husband's emotional drain, then get down to his emotional level and fill it up. #TheSuitableHelp  

32. You're hurt and bitter but can you pull out that string of adoration, admiration and delight with which every woman holds a man. #TheSuitableHelp  

33. Resist the temptation to get down to self pity and regret, fight for your man. #TheSuitableHelp  

34. The other woman isn't worth having what you've completed and made perfect as his help meet. #TheSuitableHelp  

35. She's only after your joy and peace, waiting to steal your man's heart, kill your joy and destroy your marriage. #TheSuitableHelp  

36. Become radiant, affectionate and more beautiful. Fight to get back your place on his bed and give it to him the way he wants it. #TheSuitableHelp  

37. It may look a difficult task but nothing is impossible to the wife who believes. #TheSuitableHelp  

38. When you sincerely want your home and marriage restored, God can give you the grace to have your desires granted. #TheSuitableHelp  

39. Thanks for your time, follow and retweet. God bless your marriages. #TheSuitableHelp