1. Hello great people welcome to #TheSuitableHelp episode 17.
2. #TheSuitableHelp is aimed at providing wisdom, support and encouragement for wives and single ladies to fulfil God's call on their lives.
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4. We have another interesting topic to look at today, "One Woman's Trash Is Another Woman's Treasure." #TheSuitableHelp
5. I didn't get a topic for today's tweet meet until this afternoon. While reading a book. #TheSuitableHelp
6. In the context of that book the author was actually referring to what women do in the dress store. #TheSuitableHelp
7. One woman tries a dress and another woman at the other end holds her breath, hoping she'll notice a fault and drop it. #TheSuitableHelp
8. Then the phrase hit me again, "one woman's trash is another woman's treasure" #TheSuitableHelp
9. Then I thought this can also be applied to how we treat our husbands. #TheSuitableHelp
10. We act in marriage like its a dress rehearsal, "if it doesn't suit me, I'll drop him and try the next one." #TheSuitableHelp
11. And some lady out there is actually hoping you'll find enough intolerable reasons to shift ground for her to move in. #TheSuitableHelp
12. There's this saying that we don't appreciate what we have until we loose it. #TheSuitableHelp
13. I understand how it can be so overwhelming dealing with your husbands attitude. #TheSuitableHelp
14. They can be so messy and you just wonder if they really care about being neat at all. #TheSuitableHelp
15. They have socks on the floor, used cotton bud on the table, mud on the rug from his shoes, shaved hair in the wash hand bowl. #TheSuitableHelp
16. All these can really get to you begin to build resentment in you. Which is dangerous. #TheSuitableHelp
17. When you become resentful it blinds you from seeing the unique things that attracted you to him. #TheSuitableHelp
18. Even when he goes all out to do certain things to please you, instead of being appreciative you point out errors. #TheSuitableHelp
19. Women are generally perfectionist so its always easier for us to pick out what is not done or done wrongly. #TheSuitableHelp
20. I want to believe we can always work on ourselves to become more sensitive of the other persons feelings. #TheSuitableHelp
21. If we hate to be criticised what gives us the impression our partner doesn't mind being criticised. #TheSuitableHelp
22. The less appreciative of your spouse, you become the more of his bad sides you see and the less reasons you have love him. #TheSuitableHelp
23. The more of a trash he'll become in your eyes. #TheSuitableHelp
24. Other ways you can also treat your spouse as trash is when you belittle him before the kids. #TheSuitableHelp
25. When you make friends feel more important and respected than your husband. #TheSuitableHelp
26. We have a way of displaying these things when we become resentful of the man we once loved. #TheSuitableHelp
27. Some of us are also in the habit of talking bad about our husbands in the midst of friends, pls desist from it. #TheSuitableHelp
28. You can't improve your marriage by promoting the negative sides of it. #TheSuitableHelp
29. It may feel so good being in the midst of your girlfriends and everyone having one urgly comment about her husband. #TheSuitableHelp
30. Have you ever given thought to how it makes you feel afterwards. You feel like you've just stripped him naked before everyone. #TheSuitableHelp
31. What do you gain by reducing the worth of your spouse before friends and family? #TheSuitableHelp
32. Does it help your relationship with your spouse become better? Does it contribute to the growth of your marriage? #TheSuitableHelp
33. These gatherings sometimes changes your positive orientation about marriage to a negative one. #TheSuitableHelp
34. Some friends lie about how hard they treat their husbands only to mislead you and destroy your marriage. #TheSuitableHelp
35. They tell you they take no nonsense from him, they call him once he answers 3 times. #TheSuitableHelp
36. But when you investigate you'll be surprise that such women kiss the ground their husbands walk upon. #TheSuitableHelp
37. There's nothing wrong in forming a community of wives if its aimed at encouraging each other positively. #TheSuitableHelp
38. And helping each other with resources to help grow your marriages. #TheSuitableHelp
39. The trash you find in your spouse is a potential treasure in the eyes of some other lady locking around. #TheSuitableHelp
40. In every man is locked treasure that you need to dig out. You don't pick up treasure you hunt for it. #TheSuitableHelp
41. How do you hunt out the treasure in your spouse? Appreciate the power of difference. #TheSuitableHelp
42.God didn't make a mistake by creating us differently, He made us that way for a purpose. #TheSuitableHelp
43. Discover your purpose in marriage. Discover why God made you his helpmeet and not his re-creator. #TheSuitableHelp
44. Don't try to recreate your man, but complement him. Don't be his teacher. Let The Holy Spirit teach him. #TheSuitableHelp
45. He can be that loving, caring and loyal man that people will think you've be-witched if you know how to bring it out. #TheSuitableHelp
46. We still fail to realise as women that there something about the male ego that doesn't like to be told what to do by a woman.
47. Always remember there are things to be thankful for, don't go to bed without being grateful for those things. #TheSuitableHelp
48. Be positive and help your circle of friends develop positive attitudes to their marriages and relationships. #TheSuitableHelp
49. Bring out the prince in him and he'll treat you like a princess. Bring out the treasure in him and you'll be treasured. #TheSuitableHelp
50. One woman's trash is another woman's treasure. What is your spouse to you, a trash or a treasure? #TheSuitableHelp
51. Wisdom is profitable to direct. #TheSuitableHelp
52. Thanks for your time, #TheSuitableHelp is never complete without you.
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